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the divine miss q is letting me know that she understands everything that is said and is capable of making her own decisions. the conversations go a little like this - question: can mommy change your diaper? answer: no. question: can mommy help you with that? answer: yes or vigorous head shake to signify yes. don't let mommy try to put her hand on the yogurt container to help steady it - that results in a nice push of mommy's hand off the yogurt container.

cosmic payback for sure - but i am loving every minute of it. i think i even have DH on board for baby number 2 . . . details to follow.